HELLO GRANDFATHERHOOD!

my daughter Tlotlego

i have recently been promoted to grandfather by my daughter Tlotlego. she has added a double whammy to our archives. their names are Ebenezer and Elijah.
the sad thing about it all is that they are using my surname instead of their dad's. another illegitimate stat in the ever present scourge of illegitimacy.
who is to blame in this situation? sadly, I admit that I am to blame together with her mom. we both have children outside of our marriage. children conceived while I was still fooling around with young women of my age. indeed, the ... has come home to roost.
scripture does warn us of such things, that your sin shall surely catch up with you. now I know first hand the pain that was felt by the parents of those girls I had impregnated and dumped. I do not wish any person besides me to experience this.
I am aware also that it has become fashionable these days called 'the last days, of the last days', to cohabit with a woman and not commit oneself with a bond of marriage. children are also born our of this cohabitation. You can imagine what the real description or classification of these children is; 'children born out of wedlock'. by the way, our Creator is not pleased with this type of arrangement.